- October 28, 2013
- Posted by: Rochelle
- Category: Marketing + Selling
Is your mindset one of poverty or one of riches?
Before you answer, consider this. What did you tell yourself the last time you made—or chose not to make—an investment in your future?
Did you say, “I know this expense is the right thing to do to build my business, my audience, my body of work”? Or did you say, “Yes, this would be a good thing to do but I just can’t afford it” and then let it drop?
Nothing wrong with trying to find a cheaper way to make it happen—bootstrapping is a time-honored tradition for a reason. But walking away from something you know in your gut is necessary to make your vision happen isn’t bootstrapping. It’s a poverty mentality.
I see it often in coaches and the healing arts. They have a truly palpable (not to mention admirable) sense of mission that drives them to center their work around helping others. They are often passionate, compassionate, internally motivated professionals. But somewhere along the way, they decided it’s just wrong to be paid what they’re worth.
They toil in the trenches, happy to be doing the work, but unhappy because their own needs aren’t getting met.
If you don’t put your own oxygen mask on first, you simply can’t fuel your best work, much less stay in the game.
I once worked with a coach who had calculated her rates by determining the bare minimum she needed to survive. As we tested her theory, I showed her that her definition of outstanding success—filling her coaching hours—would result in barely making ends meet. How would that serve her or her children?
Instead, we determined market rates and then juiced them upwards of 25% to reflect her experience. And then we created a special, to-be-used-with-utmost-care discounted package for the truly needy she would not be able to help otherwise.
Every single new prospect was quoted the higher rates. Her win/loss ratio changed not a bit. As her total revenue started climbing, she felt valued for her work and drew even closer to her clients.
Her future client pool began to morph as well. Those who didn’t think they could afford her (mired in their own poverty mentality) drifted away, while new, on-target prospects joined her world.
The bottom-line: If you want to run a thriving business, there is no room for a poverty mentality. You deserve to work with clients who appreciate you and are willing to pay for your great work.
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